Saturday, March 30, 2013

Milk..

..is the title of my 3rd speech in Toastmasters. I spoke about the significance of milk in someone's life. Actually, I wanted to talk about my sister and her condition, Down Syndrome, but I want my message to leave a mark on those who will hear it; so I had to tweak something in the story... I hope it will serve its purpose..



I don’t like milk. I know it’s tasty; but for me, it’s gluey.

Good evening, fellow Toastmasters and guest/s.

When I was young, I was told to drink milk because it’s good for my health. When I get sick, I would be bribed to consume at least half of the glass. You know, I could only settle for chocolate or strawberry milk.

Let me tell you a story about someone I know who likes milk so much. Her name is Angelica. When Angelica was conceived, her mom would always crave for fresh milk. She will not last a day without drinking even a glass of it. Little did she know that her baby is developing an extra chromosome – a Down Syndrome. No, Downs is not caused by drinking too much milk. It is a genetic flaw.

So, Angelica has a Down syndrome but unlike other children with the same condition, she grew up with a physically-strong built. The milk her mom consumed has given her strong bones and muscles. Her skin is as fair and white as milk. She has speech defects but she talks fast. There are times she can be as smart as an adult and silly as a 5-year old. She can do household choirs on her own like dusting, ironing, washing dishes. She would mount on chairs to reach the cupboard and look for milk. She would skip meals just to eat powdered milk.

Angelica is the most precious member of the family. She had been through a lot without her realizing the sorrow and bitterness of life. She became the family’s source of strength especially when her parents were detained in the kingdom for selling liquor. At the age of 9, she was held in custody for several months along with her mom who was so remorseful because her daughter had to stay with her and not because of their misdeed. But Angelica gave her hope and taught her to accept the circumstances without ill feelings.

Food is limited in the detention center but Angelica would always beam with a smile, dance around and yell “Halib! Halib!” at the sight of milk. In that place, her round face was like moonlight in the midst of darkness.

Being the youngest, Angelica is a Daddy’s girl. She tails her father everywhere he goes. One time, she went with him. While driving Angelica’s father started to feel dizzy so he kept blinking his eyes. Angelica was unaware of what her father was experiencing at that time. She was just innocently looking out the window. Suddenly, Angelica asked to turn left and stop. Dizziness was becoming worst; so he parked on the roadside. Then, Angelica asked him to get down the car and buy her milk. It was only then did he realize that they stopped in front of a store. So, he went down the car with heavy feet but before reaching the store, he noticed that beside it is a private clinic and for unknown reason, it pulled him inside. There, he fainted and lost consciousness.

Angelica’s father was awakened by the voices of his wife and daughter. He was in a hospital bed and his hand was injected with an IV. He had hypertension that caused him to faint. It was a good thing Angelica asked him to buy milk or no one knows what could’ve happened to them.

We all know milk is essential in the development of bones, teeth, muscles and blood. It is what we drink when we want to recover from our illnesses. It is what we drink when we want to replenish nutrients in our body. For Angelica and her parents, it has become a very important part of their lives.

Now, the next time you are served milk, take it. Drink it and remember her story. Think of the milk that made her body strong despite having Downs. Think of the milk that taught them to accept challenges with no resentment. Think of the milk that became an instrument for them to continue living life. Think about Angelica, my sister.



Wednesday, March 6, 2013

T.T.


Huh?

T.T. stands for Table Topics.

I always think of the Table Topics session as the Miss Universe’s Q&A portion. It is much-awaited. Heart-pounding. Mind-provoking. And meme-ific. It is indeed challenging to come up with an articulate answer in a short span of time. It puts Toastmasters on trial to think quickly, accurately and intelligently. Miss Universe contenders must have a really comprehensive and first-rate training on impromptu speaking.

Last night, I was privileged to be the Table Topics Master. It was my first (and waiting for the next) time. I honestly didn’t know what to do and was quite nervous as there is only a week to prepare. I consulted fellow Toastmasters who were very much accommodating to provide tips and encouragement. My aim was only to make the session happy and gay. I prepared five questions but since we only had one speaker for the prepared speech session, we added more to consume the time.

The theme of the meeting was “Make It Happen” so I had to pattern the questions with having only choices, specifically two, and expounded that we could only make things happen if we practice our freewill and make a choice. I also had to put some little numbered cardboards at the back of the seats so they won’t have to shy away from volunteering.

Let’s see if you could come up with something for these questions.

If you will be given a chance to let you change your fate, would you want to be a hot and sexy wolf like Jacob Black or a forever-young vampire like Edward Cullen? Why?

Who would you like to be and who do you want to live with for the rest of your life - Snow White with the seven naughty dwarves or Beauty with the mean beast? Why?

If you will be given wealth, would you like to have a desert with unlimited source of oil or an island with abundant natural resources (e.g. crops, livestock, soil minerals)?

If you will be reincarnated, would you choose to be a stray dog or a stray cat? Why?

You’re broke and you sold all your personal belongings, properties and almost all the furniture in your house; but if you could have only one thing that will be left, what would it be: the toilet bowl or the stove? Why?

If you could possess something that has a supernatural ability, what would it be: Harry Potter’s invisible cloak or Thor’s hammer? Why?

If you will be given a role in the movie “The Other Woman”, who would you want to be: The Wife/Husband or the Other Woman/Man? Why?

If you will be transformed to an inanimate object, what would you rather be: an alphabet or a number? Why?

If you were a glass, what would you be: half-full or half-empty? Why?

If you will be a Spokesperson, whose side would you want to defend: Tito Sotto for his plagiarism or Cynthia Villar for her belittling statements. Why?
  
As I wished, hoped and prayed for and though there were only few of us who attended, the Table Topics session was a success. Everyone enjoyed the tickling and tricky questions; plus I got a bonus of being the best segment host for the evening. I must say I had a very good time last night.

Thank you, fellow Toastmasters, and I can’t wait for the next T.T!

Happy stimulating!