T.T.

Huh?

T.T. stands for Table Topics.

I always think of the Table Topics session as the Miss Universe’s Q&A portion. It is much-awaited. Heart-pounding. Mind-provoking. And meme-ific. It is indeed challenging to come up with an articulate answer in a short span of time. It puts Toastmasters on trial to think quickly, accurately and intelligently. Miss Universe contenders must have a really comprehensive and first-rate training on impromptu speaking.

Last night, I was privileged to be the Table Topics Master. It was my first (and waiting for the next) time. I honestly didn’t know what to do and was quite nervous as there is only a week to prepare. I consulted fellow Toastmasters who were very much accommodating to provide tips and encouragement. My aim was only to make the session happy and gay. I prepared five questions but since we only had one speaker for the prepared speech session, we added more to consume the time.

The theme of the meeting was “Make It Happen” so I had to pattern the questions with having only choices, specifically two, and expounded that we could only make things happen if we practice our freewill and make a choice. I also had to put some little numbered cardboards at the back of the seats so they won’t have to shy away from volunteering.

Let’s see if you could come up with something for these questions.

If you will be given a chance to let you change your fate, would you want to be a hot and sexy wolf like Jacob Black or a forever-young vampire like Edward Cullen? Why?

Who would you like to be and who do you want to live with for the rest of your life - Snow White with the seven naughty dwarves or Beauty with the mean beast? Why?

If you will be given wealth, would you like to have a desert with unlimited source of oil or an island with abundant natural resources (e.g. crops, livestock, soil minerals)?

If you will be reincarnated, would you choose to be a stray dog or a stray cat? Why?

You’re broke and you sold all your personal belongings, properties and almost all the furniture in your house; but if you could have only one thing that will be left, what would it be: the toilet bowl or the stove? Why?

If you could possess something that has a supernatural ability, what would it be: Harry Potter’s invisible cloak or Thor’s hammer? Why?

If you will be given a role in the movie “The Other Woman”, who would you want to be: The Wife/Husband or the Other Woman/Man? Why?

If you will be transformed to an inanimate object, what would you rather be: an alphabet or a number? Why?

If you were a glass, what would you be: half-full or half-empty? Why?

If you will be a Spokesperson, whose side would you want to defend: Tito Sotto for his plagiarism or Cynthia Villar for her belittling statements. Why?

  

As I wished, hoped and prayed for and though there were only few of us who attended, the Table Topics session was a success. Everyone enjoyed the tickling and tricky questions; plus I got a bonus of being the best segment host for the evening. I must say I had a very good time last night.

Thank you, fellow Toastmasters, and I can’t wait for the next T.T!

Happy stimulating!

Speech 2

Hi y'all! I know February is a very special month for all of us but fam and I get to be busier than usual. Aside from the Valentines' Day, 'twas mom and dad's bday; and though there isn't any leap day this year, Chuchay will be celebrating her 5th year. Oh, it's "our" 16th year, too.. Despite all that, I was able to deliver my second speech for the Toastmasters basic manual. It was titled D.E. Mode. Read on, so you'll know what D.E. means...

“Students who take online classes actually perform better than those who actually GO to class.”

Good evening, fellow Toastmasters and guest.  

I know that statement could cause slight violent reactions but it is a fact. A research was done in US from 1996 to 2008 where it was found that online study tends to be better than the conventional mode of learning.

I have an engineering degree but I chose not to take the licensure exam. I was more interested in having a higher degree and taking certification courses that will add to my knowledge and skills. It took me a while to enlist because I was looking for an educational program that will not sacrifice my time with family and work; something that will not bother me leaving the house but at the same time will provide me competitive qualifications which I found in the DE mode. DE means distance education.

Learning or studying online provides an avenue for people, having certain limitations, to continue their studies. It is in one way or another similar or different from the traditional classroom setting. It has benefits and challenges that you may want to know in case you’re considering of going back to school.

What benefits does online learning have?

Accessibility. Since distance education providers will be geographically separated from the students, its accessibility allows people to work and study at the same time. Study sessions depend on the preferred time and convenient location of the students. Exams could be conducted online or in selected testing centers.  Where ever you are in the world, as long as you have an internet connection, the school will always be available online.

Interactivity. Class lectures and discussions were delivered through the web using emails, chat rooms, forums and other online sources. Course requirements were comprehensive and extensive so you use Google and moodle most of the time. Moodle is the online study portal. The Internet has infinite means makes learning interactive. Youtube, twitter, facebook, blogs and online journals will be the consultants of the students. 

Flexibility. Online learning is so flexible that people earn degrees without discrimination. Assessment will be based on the performance. Age, color and race are not an issue. I have had classmates who could pass as my grandfather. One of them was the same age as my mom. One is blind, and one is a Libyan national. There’s so much you can do with technology that allows you to overcome physical limitations. Distance education is concerned with achieving the learning objectives.

Now, what are the challenges? 

First is time management. We always say that there’s so much to do but there’s so little time. In online learning, time management is rule number one because everything from A-Z will be time-consuming. Balance it between family, work, friends and social life. Surely, office work will get in the way from time to time. Your social life may perhaps migrate from face-to-face to virtual. This schooling scheme is a good training for us when it comes to managing time.

Second is resources. There are times that the resources provided by the school are not enough to achieve the objectives especially if you want to come up with an impressive project. The internet is so huge but finding and getting the right material is not easy and sometimes, costly. You have to be very resourceful.

Third, the most challenging of all challenges, is the attitude; your personal attitude towards schooling. You will meet and make friends with “procrastination” and “cramming” as eventually learn to delay things up to the last minute. A positive outlook matched with dedication, perseverance and hard work will reap you the degree you’re aiming for. You just have to have the right attitude.

Today, there are hundreds of distance education providers. Some are offering short courses, higher degrees, certificates, name it and they will have it. Some are low-cost; others are expensive. You may want to or not register for an online course but what matters most is that we continuously find ways to learn and enhance our knowledge. As Anthony D’Angelo mellifluously said, “Develop a passion for learning. If you do, you will never cease to grow.” 

Now, did that make you think twice of taking the D.E. mode?

 

The Icebreaker

It's been a while since I last posted. Got pretty occupied with A LOT of things for the past several months. School is over. Got my graduate degree already - yehey! Got promoted at work - yehey! Met new people, went to some places, got a new pet and now trying to get busy with whatever comes around... And oh, I joined Toastmasters, too! Just delivered my first speech the other night. Here it goes...

When you meet a person, you are actually being introduced to three different individuals. One is the person he is; one is the person how he wants people to know him and one is how we really sees himself.

Good evening fellow Toastmaster and guests.

I would like to give a brief introduction of myself, Surely, you will know more about me eventually. It’s not easy to talk in front of a lot of people. It’s always during those moments when you wish you could just disappear in a snap.

My name is Mayeth but please don’t think that I was born on May 8th. My parents have thought of my name so brilliantly. Being born on the month of May and having a mom named Juliet, they came up with such; but you can call me May for short.

Half of my life was spent here in the kingdom. I came here when I was thirteen. Now, I am in my thirties. I wonder if I will spend my sixties here, too. But I definitely do not wish that I will reach nineties in this place. I have a ten-year old son, a daughter born on a leap year and married to self-made man who I was only teaching how to use a floppy-disk before but has now become an IT specialist and earning more than I do. Anyway, that’s the genius part of it, I still get his earnings. I am a wife who eats a lot but doesn’t cook, a mother who confiscates iPad so I could get my turn to read, a bossy sister, a hard-headed daughter, an outspoken friend, a perfectionist colleague, and someone who was recently diagnosed manifesting early signs of OCD. Sounds like a dangerous person, but no, I’m compassionate and a bit reserved; that’s why I joined Toastmasters, for me to slacken off a little. I spent my high school days here in IPSR. I am proud to say I am one of the products of Toastmaster’s Youth Leadership Program in 1997.

I have always wanted to be a communications specialist but I didn’t want to do the talking. I would rather be writing than speaking. I would rather be behind than in front of the camera; working on the consoles, the cables. I was fascinated with being a back support. So I took a degree in electronics and communications engineering. But I didn’t take a licensure exam because at the time I finished college, I already got a license and a certificate – a marriage license and the birth certificate of my son. My first job was in a call center in the Philippines where I worked as a technical support representative for a year. Then, they took me in as a quality assurance specialist where I was introduced to the whole essence of communication skills. 

But that didn’t last long as I had to come back to the kingdom. Just a month after giving birth to our daughter, I was offered a job in King Saud bin Abdulaziz University for Health Sciences of National Guard Health Affairs. I work as an administrative assistant for one of the Deans in the University. Working in such environment triggered my long overdue aspiration of pursuing graduate studies and so I did. Some fellow Toastmasters shared with me the adversities of getting a Master Degree in Development Communications which we just got last year from the University of the Philippines Open University. We grooved on deciphering ambiguous questions from reputable UP professors, we freaked out on deadlines, we delighted ourselves in meditating so we could participate in online discussions and arguments; the Internet became the courtyard of our minds. Good thing it was an online study, Google was very helpful.

Now that I have such degree but with the limited engagements we, expatriates, are expected to conduct here in the kingdom, I am finding ways on how to utilize my knowledge as a development communicator. I look forward to having a chance of giving back to the community, to be of service to others. I hope that I will gain more than just communication or leadership skills from this group. I am actually expecting myself to do a lot in this organization.

Fellow Toastmasters and Guests, I am also looking forward to getting to know you all of you.

My Origami Stars

Folding an Origami star is my favorite hobby. I’ve been a folder since 2005. Thanks to the mid-shift work schedule; my co-agents in the call center taught me how to do it.

Ori means to fold. Kami means paper. These are Japanese terms. So, Origami is the Japanese art of paper folding. Washi is the origami paper. But I only use art papers that were made in the Philippines.

There are many different types of origami designs. But the star does wonders for me. I could last a whole day on a couch doing nothing but folding. Right now I’m working on filling a fishbowl which is almost half-full with tiny stars.